happy halloween. its fucking halloween every day from now until the end of october. happy fucking halloween
"I was excited about our upcoming fan events only to shokingly be informed by my company and 8 others that as of today, I’m no longer a member. I’m devastated - my priority and love is to serve as a member of GG, but for no justifiable reason, I am being forced out
"You guys are very special people that I love dearly, therefore you deserve to hear the truth from me. I’m deeply saddened and hurt by those who I trusted and hope that you don’t ever have to experience this kind of pain.#staystrongsnsd
Awhh, congratulations! You sound so sweet and I’m really happy for you, that’s brilliant news! :)
It’s not embarrassing at all by the way; I’m glad you are telling me this though because I’d hate for you to feel nervous without expressing it. Talking to others, as clichéd as it sounds, can be the best solution to any worries. Straight away, there’s a weight off your shoulders. Don’t let yourself be burdened alone ever, no matter how trivial you feel the matter may be! c:
Acknowledging you are a bit concerned is really good because you know where you stand and can work your way through what you’re nervous about - if you refused to face up to it, you’d be in a tougher spot so *high five* that you know you are as human as all of us and need reassurance in what you’re doing. I remember when I was thirteen and I was the only person in my year who had yet to kiss someone, oh gosh. I really thought there was a glitch in me when, really, I just didn’t want to be at that stage yet and couldn’t see that at the time. You always need to put your own feelings and thoughts before all else because you are the priority here. So, if you don’t feel ready, make it known and don’t push yourself, please.
Age seriously doesn’t make a difference, I honestly believe, because everyone is different. Plus, twenty is young! You’re only just tipping into life still.
I feel for you so much, lack of experience in relation to anything can be incredibly stressful and leave you feeling low but you shouldn’t at all. It’s okay to try and seek out any knowledge you are iffy about because, well, you are entitled to know. :)
Take things one step at a time, I suggest. Like you pointed out, you don’t have to kiss on the first date (and shouldn’t feel obliged to at all) and kissing before you’re secure in yourself will just make you feel, possibly, worse. Don’t allow pressure to get to you - enjoy the date. That’s the most important factor at the end of the day. Physical contact doesn’t equal progress in a romantic relationship, really (as the belief of thirteen year-old me went); if you want to stick to just talking and getting to know the person in question, that’s perfect!
I wish I knew the secrets to kissing, but alas they remain unknown to me. From what I’ve gathered, all the worry and nerves for it really seem ridiculous to you after you do kiss. The only thing I can tell you is that you’ll know what to do when the time comes and that sounds totally untrue but, trust me, there’s no level up you need or instruction to follow beforehand; you’ll just chide yourself after for thinking you couldn’t do it, if ever you do kiss (and, again, you don’t have to!). Plus, if you focus on your previous kiss, you can get a better balance on what you think you need to do.
Good luck, I hope you have the best time and I’ll keep you in my thoughts! :)
We’re gonna play a new game called Top 10 TV shows because there’s one for films. Write down your top shows and then tag 10 friends to do the same.
10 favourite TV shows (in no particular order):
• Breaking Bad
• Doctor Who
• Orange Is The New Black
• Game Of Thrones
• My Mad Fat Diary
I tag: you if you haven’t done this. c: (no but seriously mobile blogging doesn’t like me so I can’t check for who hasn’t been tagged to tag, sorry!)
If someone says “I love u” and you say “I love u 2” back, make sure you add “no Bono” so they know you mean that you love them too, not just the legendary Irish rock band U2
Can’t you read?!